Results of Experiment ‘No longer weighing in weekly’

Ok so it’s taken me a while to build up the courage to admit to this- when I finally did weigh in 6 weeks after starting the experiment…….. I had put on 2 lbs.  Please don’t stop reading though, because I still think not weighing in weekly is the general way for me to go, all I need are a few added extras, and I’ll share what these are later!  Firstly let me run through the benefits of not weighing myself-

THE PROS

  • Less stress! It felt amazing not to go through the weekly emotional trauma which occurs each time I stand on the scales; the internal dialogue along the lines of ‘I could have done better’, ‘I could have tried harder’, ‘I should have lost more’, ‘What’s wrong with me? Why can’t I even do this simple thing’ etc.  As a result I felt much calmer and much happier.
  • More focus on behaviour. I really did focus much more consistently on the behaviours that will enable me to lose weight. Somehow, by not filling up my head space with worrying about the number on the scales, I had more time to really understand where my issues lie. I know now without any doubt that the ONE thing that STOPS me being consistently successful, is my evening grazing habit.  If I can fix that one, I’m pretty sure I’ll be mostly sorted.
  • No more emotional roller coaster. When I weigh in, whether it’s a gain, a stay the same or a loss, I feel (often far too intensely) some emotion-if not joy, then despair, sadness, disappointment and the emotion inevitably affects my motivation to continue to stick with my helpful behaviour changes.  Even a joyful weigh in experience can affect how I then behave- I might relax a bit and have the odd treat.  By limiting weighing in, I allow myself to get off the weekly emotional roller coaster that impacts on my behaviours.

SO WHY DID I GAIN?

I think the problem was that I had no clear plan of when I would be weighing in- in my head I had vaguely considered weighing in monthly; but after 4 whole weeks of not weighing, it became REALLY SCARY to face the scales.  Anyway the long and the short of it was, week 5 and 6 included a few social engagements, and also I lost my focus a bit (in the evenings again!).  The result was that I undid all the good I had done in the first 4 weeks.

MY LIGHT BULB MOMENT

My clients are seeing great success with their weight loss and yet they have also come to the conclusion that weighing in weekly impacts their motivation negatively.  How come they are doing well and I’m not?  The difference is…..wait for it…..they have a coach- ME!   (And I don’t!)

They get the focus of their weekly or fortnightly sessions with me.  Also they have a plan!  During the sessions they are able to talk in detail about what will work for them and when the best times for them to weigh in will be.

So guess what?  I finally decided that I could no longer afford NOT to invest (both money and time) in getting myself my very own coach to focus specifically on my weight loss!  In our first session I set about constructing my plan for measuring my progress fortnightly- I committed to weighing in once a month and I also committed to measuring my waist once a month. It feels wonderful to finally get the 1-2-1 attention and the accountability I have been secretly craving, and to have the opportunity to think in more detail about what stops me from being successful now, when I have been so successful in the past. I’ll keep you updated as to how it all works out.

It’s all about learning as we go along, right?  What have you learnt about yourself on your weight loss journeys so far?  Please tell me in the comments below

P.S.  For those of you who live in Berkshire, UK, and need some added focus in their lives, pop over to my facebook page Anna Jones-Time to sort it, for info on my new Coffee and Coaching group sessions which are happening in a couple of weeks’ time.

7 comments

  1. mmorgause · March 11, 2015

    i agree! I also got better results when I stopped weighting myself every week and that I eat healthy when I’m well emotionally… xx

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    • annajones64 · March 11, 2015

      Good to hear i am not the only one 🙂 x

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    • annajones64 · March 25, 2015

      Yep- happy head helps healthy body 🙂 Thanks for commnenting 🙂

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  2. sonika kruger · March 13, 2015

    Being pregnant for the second time, I quickly realised it is absolutely not about the weight, but about the health. When is was pregnant with my first born I gained 14 kilos, 4 of them in one month and I lost the weight within days. Now with the second one, I eat like a mad women and I only gained 2 kilos. So weight, but health is more important! Thank you for just confirming what I believed all along 🙂

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    • annajones64 · March 25, 2015

      Absolutely Sonika- health is more important! I was the same when I was pregnant-possibly it was the only time in my life where i ate intuitively and without guilt! Thanks for your comment :0)

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  3. heatherborderie · March 14, 2015

    Fab blog – thanks. I stopped weighing myself because I thought I hadn’t been very “good” (not going to the gym as much etc..) Today I got on the scales and I had lost a little bit of weight!
    Amazing timing reading your post.
    Thank you. H

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    • annajones64 · March 25, 2015

      Thanks Heather- yes it’s mad the way we judge ourselves ‘good’ or ‘bad’ just depending on the number on the scales! And well done on losing a bit 🙂

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